- Please others feelings first, don’t be true to yourself
- Avoid failure, don’t get out of your comfort zone, risking failure can lead to self-growth
- Do it by yourself, don’t seek help, don’t accept support or employ a team.
- Avoid celebration — don’t treat yourself, dwell on what you haven’t accomplished yet
- Don’t let yourself be seen, hide from people to avoid rejection
- Look for the easy options and find a short cut